PRIVATE EVENT: Ruby Tears

PRIVATE EVENT: Ruby TearsRUBY TEARS is a queers only bloodplay party: needles, staples, scalpels, knives, oh my! This barebones sexy and kinky party does not offer icebreakers, opening closing circle, DJs, gogo dancers, house tops, bartenders, or care angels. This event is only open to people who are both kinky and queer. WHAT TO EXPECT AT RUBY TEARS Theme: red, black, and white Crowd: queer sharps players only, attendance capped at 65 folks Time Date: 3pm 9pm Saturday, May 2

RUBY TEARS is a queers-only bloodplay party: needles, staples, scalpels, knives, oh my! 

This barebones sexy and kinky party does not offer icebreakers, opening/closing circle, DJs, gogo dancers, house tops, bartenders, or care angels. This event is only open to people who are both kinky and queer. 

WHAT TO EXPECT AT RUBY TEARS

Theme: red, black, and white

Crowd: queer sharps players only, attendance capped at 65 folks 

Time/Date: 3pm-9pm Saturday, May 2 

Frequency: one-time (but do ask Mayhem about their quarterly play party, The Neon Party)

Location: Filthy Studios, Oakland 

Pricing: $25 volunteer tickets, $50 advance tickets, no door tickets sold 

Signal group chat for flirting with other attendees: 

https://signal.group/#CjQKIMqTmYQ4RrP4h0bRaAU89Yg0InuIa5LyB6cWyInXbaTLEhAxeoc-gfUSKodrmKgJhqXF 

EVENT RULES

For blood impact:

• If combining impact with your needle scene, wrap the entire bodyparty in plastic wrap first.
• Do not combine impact with uncovered sharps: it will aerosolize the bodily fluids into the air and be grounds for removal from the event 

Exposed needles:

• Do not walk around with uncapped needles 
• Do not leave your scene without capping your needles 

Using equipment 

• All equipment must be covered before play begins 
  • Minimum: tarp on equipment
  • Better: chuck pad on top of tarp on equipment  
• Equipment must be cleaned with Clorox wipes, NOT alcohol spray 
• Tarps

  • If you are bringing your own tarp, the suggested size is at least 9ft x 9ft 

  • Tarps are NOT:
    • Garbage bags
    • Table cloths
    • Bedsheets 
  • A tarp is a large sheet of strong, flexible, water-resistant or waterproof material, often cloth such as canvas or polyester coated with polyurethane, or made of plastics such as polyethylene
  • Example of a tarp usable at Filthy Studios: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DCZSMF7G?ref=fed_asin_title&th=1 

Sharps containers 

• A limited number of sharps containers will be available for use at the venue
• Bring your own sharps container and write your name and contact info on it 
• Do not dispose of any sharps anywhere other than a sharps container 

Venue will provide: 

• Alcohol wipes 
• Gauze 
• Paper towels 
• Gloves 
• Sharps containers  

THE VENUE

Ruby Tears will be at Filthy Studios in Oakland!

VOLUNTEERING

• Possible volunteer shifts: setup, kitchen duty, floating cleanup, teardown
• Email Mayhem ([email protected]) or DM them in the Signal group chat (https://signal.group/#CjQKICttqamQxGuB5Fswa_Xqv1_Dp4AtwutTEQrnD8Ce-UIrEhDtiFLV2ekz-9NnxFzhIH-d ) for more info about volunteering. 
• PUBLICITY AND PHOTOGRAPHY
• Please do not post the address, ticket link, or event info publicly anywhere. 
• Photos are not permitted at Filthy Studios for this event.
  

RESTRICTIONS

• No breath play or simulated breath play. 
• No raceplay, scatplay, watersports, or glitter.
• Please be aware of how loud you/your scene gets. Use a gag if your scene becomes disruptive to the general noise level of the space.
• No vaping, poppers, substance use in the event space: please go outside.
• Do not lock anyone into a cage, or lock a person onto any fixed anchor. In case there is a fire or earthquake, everyone needs to be able to immediately evacuate to the sidewalk.

EVENT ORGANIZER INFO

• This is a private event organized by Mx Mayhem Mai hosted at Filthy Studios.
• Questions or concerns can be sent to [email protected] or on Signal.
• Venue questions and details on booking Filthy Studios can be sent to Fivestar [email protected] 
• For any consent violations/concerns, please CC both Mayhem ([email protected]) and Fivestar ([email protected])  
• Stay in touch with Mayhem: https://allmylinks.com/mxmayhemmai 

COVID-19 SAFETY

• Please take a rapid test on the day of the party, and write your initials and the date on the test. Take a photo of your test.
• Bring a photo of your negative test to the event for entry. 
• If you are having symptoms consistent with COVID-19 or other infectious diseases, please stay home and do not come to the space until you are better. 
• Masks are optional, and we encourage their use.
  

COMMUNITY GUIDELINES 

• Filthy Studios has a zero-tolerance policy for discriminatory or harassing behavior. We take concerns seriously and act when issues are raised.
• Please review the Filthy Studios Code of Conduct before attending. 
• Additional information about accessibility, logistics, and event policies can be found at https://filthystudios.com/pages/event-info